Coach has always wanted kids more than I have.
I've always been so afraid of the havoc a baby would wreck on our lives-financially, physically (for me especially), relationship wise for Coach and I...besides the fact that I am not that great with little kids. Kids have always seemed so limiting, so constricting. I feel that having a child is going to cut down on our travel, on career options, on money, on everything.
Coach's friend D was down this weekend, with his wife and their new baby. And when I held their son, and looked into his cute little face, I could see how it all could be so worth it.
My biological clock just started up in a big way.
How do you view kids in terms of your relationship? Are you and your partner in agreement with how many kids you want, if any?